I hate her, I really do.

Is it possible to get a sunburn and frostbite in the same weekend? I think I may have done just that.

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We spent the entire weekend at my Mother’s house. ( No computer, I’ve missed you all ) The pool is great, cold but great.

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Monday my whole family gathered there, which was weird for me as they normally all invade my house. Of course I still did all the cooking, but it was weird none-the-less.

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My brother brought his girlfriend…to put it nicely I have issues with this little girl. Not only does she barely speak to any women in the room, but it seems that she is incapable of speaking to anyone who owns a penis without flirting.

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You know that cutesy-flirtsy, hair twirling, eyelash batting, dangling her shoe off her toe while kicking her leg up and down as she sits, giggle at every sentence said by a man,  kind of deal. I mean every male in the house…my father, Ethan, she even does it with Jarod and Logan.

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She refuses to eat or drink anything, SHE DRIVES ME NUTS!

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I swear if she would have said the words “like” or “you know what I mean?” one more time I would have been forced to drag her outside by her over highlighted hair and drown her.

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I guess I should be grateful she didn’t come prepared to swim. She probably would have worn a bathing suit made of string and pasties.

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After an hour I was seriously contemplating putting a fork in my eye.

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I just do not understand what my brother sees in her, our other brother feels the same way as I do. I was nice….overly nice, out of respect for my brother, but the girl is like fingernails on a chalkboard to me.

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As they pulled away, she was crying. My brother made a reference to her having her period after she berated him for taking too long in the bathroom.

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I’m sure I will have to endure a 3 hour phone call from him later to discuss her feelings.

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I hope you all are well, I have to put the kids on the bus and then I will be back to catch up on your blogs.

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10 Comments so far

  1. Lidecka @ May 29th, 2007

    That is a picture of a woman that is highly insecure of herself and as a result a menace to people around her. She clearly didn’t come intending to bond, or even get to know he family. She was all about making a good impresson. That sad for her and unfortunate for your brother. Hey, don’t worry. Hopefully, your brother will get over pampering her before she gets over being pampered by him.

  2. Magan @ May 29th, 2007

    I am sorry you had to deal with that girl and I am glad you didn’t let it ruin your holiday.  We have to deal with one just like that and I know its no comfort now but your brother will have enough of her one day and get rid of her.

  3. Heather @ May 29th, 2007

    Sounds like good times. I must say that I am surprised you kept quiet. Not exactly in your nature. Hopefully your brother will come to his senses.

  4. Nikki @ May 29th, 2007

    She sounds immature.  Hopefully, either your brother will tire of her and move on and choose someone that’s more compatible with the family next time around or the girl will mature and behave more appropriately.  If neither happens……this is not going to be a good situation…….

  5. Luella @ May 29th, 2007

    I hope all goes well with you and your brother.  Take care.

  6. Jo @ May 29th, 2007

    Ugh, sounds like Barbie is annoying as hell! I am annoyed with her and I don’t even know her, but I know her type!  Yikes. 

    Hang in there Erika, as you already know, for your brother’s sake.

  7. Mary @ May 30th, 2007

    I just read your blog from Friday and almost fell off my chair laughing!  Oh man, that was so funny!!!!!

    Your brother’s girlfriend??  Yup, been there…seen her a few times.  What’s really bad is when they don’t even resemble Barbie, just think they do, and everybody is obviously turned off by her actions!

    I’m sure your brother will see the light, if that didn’t already make him!

     

     

  8. ToNaLiCiOuS @ May 30th, 2007

    Wow, I say “like” all the time, but so far no one has wanted to bash my head into a wall.. You know I was once confronted from some friends about how my niceness was really flirting.. So from that moment on I rethink my actions and how I speak to males..

    Hope the rest of your week goes well

  9. amanda @ May 30th, 2007

    i know how you feel my husbands whole family does that to me they wont come to my house for my kids parties un less my family isnt comming so i tricked them i told everyone to be here at a certain time and made sure his family got here first them my family i gathered them all up and said look i know y’all cant stand each other but y’all have grandkids together and if ya cant come here and get along for a few hours just for them the all y’all take ypur assses home and dont come back now they come but they wont eat anything my family brings and ofcourse they dont even bring a present for my kids but i let loose on my husband and now things are slowly gettin better next time try pullin her aside and ask her why she wont eat or talk that pretty much what i did and most of his family hates me but i dont care i still love him sorry this dont have much to do with your prob i think it was close enough just for me to vent a little
    mandy

  10. Bette Jo @ May 30th, 2007

    Yea, I know the feeling. My middles son has a new girlfriend that is as annoying as hell. I have never in my life told my kids when I couldn’t stand a girlfriend, but this time I had too. This one he has now talks a mile a minute about nonsense and she giggles and talks worse than any truck driver I have ever heard. I told my son, she will not be welcome in my house again if I have to hear the way she talks, it is so disrespectful. I told him I just wanted to grab her by the hair and bash her head into the wall. I have always respected my kids choices, but this time I just couldn’t do it. The things coming out of her mouth embarressed not only me but my husband. I told my son that I will not have her at any family functions because I will not be embarressed by her. He talked to her, but who knows if it did any good.

    Glad you were able to enjoy the pool!

    Have a great day!

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